What Really Happened on The Big Day

I recently posted about my wedding day and how incredibly beautiful and amazing it was, BUT lets talk about What Happened the day before the big day.

I had run myself hectic the months, weeks, and days before trying to get ready for the big day. Everything, I mean EVERYTHING had to be perfect. And It was. However, the day before my wedding, now that's a different story.

The night of my bachelorette party (the day before the wedding) All hell broke loose!

First, one of my bridesmaids called me that night to tell me that her zipper on the back of her dress had just broken (for the second time that week).
What she said: "Taylor I'm so sorry but my zipper just won't zip up. I think its broken again. What do I do?"
What I heard: "Taylor I have not been properly dieting even though I know this day was so important and quickly approaching, not to mention my dress was already small to begin with, so long story short I can't zip my dress because Ive gained too much weight."

What I said back: Its okay hun. I will figure something out. Ill have my sister stand in your place since she already has the dress. If you can just pick up the food by 12:45pm tomorrow and make sure it gets to the chapel on time I can handle the rest. (P.S. She never showed up to get the food. I called her three times with no answer. I had to eventually had to stuff all the food in my tiny little car along with my dress, all of the flowers, the wedding favors, three adults, and my luggage for my honeymoon.)
What I should have said: "WHAT HOW COULD YOUR DRESS POSSIBLY BREAK JUST HOURS BEFORE THE WEDDING! WHY WERE YOU NOT IN THE GYM. IM PREGNANT AND EVEN MY DRESS FITS.!"

Second, my bachelorette party was Absolutely Terrible!
Keep in mind that I'm pregnant so naturally I can't party and stay out all night like I used to. Any pregnant woman should know this. Right? WRONG

My maid of honor, who has the cutest little boy, has been pregnant before (OBVIOUSLY) and she planned my entire party. being a mother herself she should have understood. She didn't. She asked what I wanted for my party:
What I said: "I want to have a pajama party with all my girlfriends. We can watch movies and eat all the junk food in the world. It'll be so much fun. That way I can get to bed at a decent hour."
What She heard: "I want us to all dress half naked, rent a hotel and a room downtown and go to all the bars and clubs we can until we eventually get too drunk to function and have to crawl back to our hotel."

And that is exactly what she did. She COMPLETELY ignored my request, rented a hotel downtown and stalked it with alcohol. I'm sure your all thinking WHY DID SHE GET ALCOHOL WHEN YOU COULDN'T DRINK BECAUSE YOUR PREGNANT?  That's a great question. Answer: I have no idea!

So for my bachelor party I got ditched at iHop while my bridesmaids went clubbing all night. I finished my food and went home and they enjoyed the hotel and what I Heard was the best night ever.

I say all that to say,, 

Ladies, choice your bridesmaids and your friends wisely. Find someone to be your maid of honor that Really has your best interests at heart. My maid of honor and a few of my bridesmaids fought me almost during my whole wedding prep. They helped a little but for the most part they were very selfish. They fought me on the dress, the shoes, I mean just everything. So be wise in who you pick.

I will say Thank you to my sisters who were my greatest support in all of this.

And That's What Really Happened